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I was once one of the UK's top professional dominatrix's. I was also and continue to be an alternative therapist long before I worked as a dominatrix. I decided to help people as a natural transition with coaching their lives.  I have consensually messed with a few peoples heads and bodies along the way and had  one person fuck with mine back WITHOUT my consent.  

 

I have been officially retired now for more than 2 years.   I made more than 400 films a couple of which are available in every sex shop in the country, and was listed as on the OWK as a world top dominatrix.  I specialised in CBT, facesitting, queening, goddess worship and humiliation.

 

For a while I kept up the image that Mistress was still working just to keep the the fantasy going but I dont need to do that anymore.  Its been 2 years since I went to thailand and decided enough was enough.

 

Why did I stop ? Partly because of the constant time wasters I appeared to attract.  It was part of the being too "nice a dom".  But mostly because I made the fatal mistake of falling in love with one of my subs. 

 

He turned out to be a monster and a blessing in disguise.  

 

This made me decide to stop doing domination altogether.  But I realised that Slave h taught me a few very powerful life lessons along the way. He made me smarter and wiser and a far stronger happier person.  

 

 

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 Before I left, some people worshipped me, some were afraid of me and some people were lucky to call me MPD.  But those that knew me know also that I am one the most genuine dominatrix's in the country with an even bigger heart.  One person slave h tried to "break me" but our real colours always shine through and I came back stronger and happier.

 

It took a big heart and some even bigger balls to forgive and forget.

 

I guess MPD is just another aspect of who I am and because we cannot hide who we are under the mask unless of course we are a psychopath, which thankfully I am not. 

 


 

 

 

 

 

Domination is a complex psychological process which ensnares both parties in bonds of complicity,  and especially our sexual relations. 

 

Jessica Benjamin

 

If we are not able to express ourselves or understand the D/s Relationship then we cannot be whole.  Exploring our sexuality should be an open an honest extension of who we are.